Someone new came into O chat the other day (English was not their native language btw). After chatting a bit, this guy asked a girl if he could view her. For some reason, this apparently painted a bulls-eye on his back, because this person then got bullied relentlessly by the girl and a few of her cohorts. The bullied person actually took it quite well (maybe he didn't understand all the things they were saying to him? not sure). But the things they said to him were like kids in a schoolyard. And they were said with such glee and malice. I was very embarrassed just reading it. (For the record, after reviewing the chat logs, we found other examples of the same exact thing happening with this group to other newcomers. Also for the record, arbitrarily calling a newbie -- who most likely is in the process of learning how our chat works -- a "troll" does not make it OK to treat them like that.)
Let me make this clear: We do not allow bullying here. For any reason. If you think someone is breaking a rule or treating someone wrong, you should report them (screenshot here). It's easy. And it works. If we find good evidence and reason to warn or ban the reported person, we will make that happen. I know human nature is to go Dirty Harry on someone you think is doing wrong, especially when it's online and there are no apparent repercussions. But you see, we have found that that typically just causes escalating nonsense that can get totally out of control. And before you know it, we have a full-fledged civil war, with everyone forced to choose which side they're on, often without knowing all -- or ANY -- of the real facts. OK, I'm ending my rant now. Thanks for listening. ~ilikeitalot
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This is something I'm very curious about! I've attached a poll!!
If yes, would you want to know something about the woman or is it more alluring to know nothing? If no, what would deter you? (being found out, no way to pay, not interested, prefer to find them on your own, etc)
Now this is something that i had to say . I wanted to say this in chat but if i did id get attacked and in all honesty I'm just to tired to argue with anyone especially with a bunch of so called men. Their is nothing wrong with being nice and respecting other people if more people did that this would be a better world but their is a problem when you degrade yourself and humilliate yourself and attack other people just for a women on this site. believing every word she says is the truth and the law while attacking others. Lately Ive been seeing men kiss the asses of women that are not VIPs no re women that they ever will see on cam but they still grubble at their feet Ive seen men who soil their gender and men that would sell their own mother just so a women would talk to them on here. Some men on here have no balls and listen to women here like they are gods which they aren't they are people just as men and men also deserve the same respect as they do. I'm not attacking women and I'm not saying be rude I'm only attacking the men who in this chat and in real life kiss the asses of women just because they think so littel of themselves and only think that is how they will get pussy. Wake up they have no respect for you and the worst thing is you have no respect for yourself.
I'm assuming many members and visitors might not read the comments to this post, so I thought I should share Mani's response here. ~ilikeitalot
G-Dog, it would serve you right if I just pasted the section of the chat log relevant to your complaint here for everyone to peruse. That way everyone could see who has self-respect, and who was begging to see a cam, and who wasn't. Just because someone said, "let's not be pushy here guys" doesn't mean they are a "beta". (Nice derogatory term there, bro).
But it wouldn't be fair to anyone else, because actually everyone put up with your whining quite gracefully. Kudos to everyone for that.
So I suggest you take your own advice and grow a pair of balls, instead of making self-indulgent passive-aggressive posts in the forum.
In the future keep in mind that if you want to air dirty laundry in public, someone is quite likely to tell how it got dirty.
Earlier today I saw my Dominant, who I don't have a sexual relationship with (he has a long term relationship and they are monogamous, which is rather frustrating at times, but c'est la vie). I am strongly attracted to him, have been for some time. OK, I totally adore him. He has so many good points, he is open, honest, completely straight forward and, well, an alpha. So, as is the way in the BDSM scene, we hug to greet and hug to say bye also.
It's hot in Australia, damn hot today. I'm at his place for a few hours today and when he got home he took his shirt off That was enough for me to start thinking wicked thoughts. But then I noticed his body odour. Odour De Man. Let me tell you, that odour has been on me before when I was driving home from a party. I could smell him the entire hour long drive home.... my brain was fried. He actually made me dizzy, well the smell of him did. So today, after inhaling his scent for a few hours, he hugged me. All I saw was these armpits coming at me. I am shorter than him (actually I'm shorter than most people at 5ft 1) and I fit under those armpits. I had a dress on, no sleeves, just little straps, so his armpits were on my shoulders.
All the way home again. An hour's drive. A dizzy drive home again, I could feel my head swimming. And now, laying in bed, it's about six hours since I left, I can still smell him. So I was contemplating this thing I have for his odour. I am attracted by it, it is alluring for me. I assume this is some cave man throwback to a smelly man being the one who has run the furthest, worked the hardest therefore is the best for making babies with as he is a provider. Or perhaps it is just a twist on a memory that I have of sweaty man = damn good sex. Either way his sweat does it for me, like really does it for me. On the flip side, I recall a man I saw for a short time, around four weeks I think I lasted with him. He had constant body odour but it was a turn off for me, total opposite to what this man's scent does to me. I wonder if it is the pheromones or just that the ex really wasn't my type so his smell wasn't a turn on.
What say you, O'sters? Do you react like this to the natural scent of others or do you prefer man made smells like deodorant, etc. (I'm betting Mani has a lot to say on this subject).
I encountered this rather ill-understood and less known situation of women having premature orgasms! Any of the wonderful ladies can shed some light on this lesser known situations? Do share your experiences and solutions.
It must be a fascinating subject for the scientists. They keep doing research on this! Can't say I blame them! Enjoy. This video is on Youtube... This video has been removed by Youtube. Apparently, it violates their standards! - HOM