Feeling turned on, and guilty about it.

[Anonymous]

I have a job that requires me to dress in really skimpy clothing (corset, fishnets, booty shorts) and bring drinks to guys. I sometimes come across really hot guys and it's very tempting to want to hook up, but I am in a stable, long time relationship with my boyfriend. Tonight at work I was talking to a customer that I was extremely attracted to. He was different. He had a thick southern accent, was about 16 years older than me, and was physically very big, and very attractive. We had so much sexual tension it was crazy. I'm very short and he was very tall and we were standing so close to each other that my breasts were pressed up against him and I got turned on and I could feel my pussy getting swollen and wet. It was a mutual thing, he kept telling me how sexy I was, and vice versa. We flirted and stared at each other all night. I wanted him so bad, I even got in trouble with my manager for talking to him for too long. But when I got home, I was still thinking of him and thinking about if he was going to come into work again anytime soon. I found myself excited at the thought that he would come back into work and I'd get to flirt with him again and feel the sexual tension.

But now I feel guilty because if my boyfriend knew these things, it'd break his heart. But this job lets me be the 21 year old crazy fun, flirty girl that I secretly want to be. It lets me flirt with guys and play with the idea of having sex with them, but never doing it. It sort of lets me have my cake and eat it too, but it's not fair for my boyfriend. I can tell him what happened and play it off like it was just for my job, but in reality, I liked it a lot. It makes me want to be single, just so that if I want to mess around with a hot guy from work that I had sexual chemistry with, I can. But I know it's not worth leaving my boyfriend for. Okay I'm done, I'm just sharing something that I can't share with anyone else, and it feels good.   

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I think it happens all the time. We once had a young girl staying with us. She was quite cute and flirty. The sexual tension was huge. But we both knew nothing could ever really happen. I wasn't interested in screwing things up and she was a smart girl. But I had a few damn good cums with some of her panties that she left laying around. I like "O" because it is an outlet to explore the naughty flirty side.

[Anonymous]

I deal with things like that a lot as my girlfriend lives 3 hours away so we don't see each other that often.
I don't have people flirting with me though because my school is 85-90% male (trade school) and most, if not all of the females are already taken anyway. So it is a lot easier to stay focused. And if I have an urge, well thats what porn is for =)

In the end, you have to look at what you want. If you truly just want to be single, then staying with your boyfriend will only hurt your relationship. Keep in mind, that there will always be some guy that catches your attention, especially in a job like yours. Doesn't mean that this certain guy is any better than your boyfriend, its just that its new, exciting, and a little taboo. There will always be time for a relationship later. If its not in the cards for you now...its just not there. If you decide to stay with your boyfriend, finding a new job would help solve the problem as well.

[damage]

I deal with this quite a bit.  Some of you here know I roadie for a band.  Well, there's plenty of mischief to be had out of town at a rock and roll show, let me tell you.  It makes me feel good that women are still paying attention and are willing to flirt and or more.  I don't go out of my way at all.  I know I'm married.  Almost every show we've played there has been some attractive woman that would have been an easy hookup.  Some shows, more than one.  If I were to follow through, I'm not sure what would happen.  My wife trusts me but she knows what can and does happen out on the road.  In may case all the guys are married and have kids.  So they tend to be a bit more level-headed, than let's say Motley Crue back in the 80s.  The temptation is there almost every weekend without even trying.  I guess for me, just knowing I still have "it", whatever "it" is, is good enough for now. 

[Anonymous]

Honestly I don't think its that big a deal. As long as you don't touch. I mean, if your boyfriend is that insecure, that thoughts of others by you threaten him, then he's got bigger issues. Thoughts, of any kind, happen, and at least you don't act on them. And, personally, I think, if he is worried or gets hurt by thoughts, what would he do if he knew about the shit that goes on on this site?

[Anonymous]

Flirting is a great way to release some of the sexual tension that almost always occurs in the workplace. Are you flirting because of sexual desires or do you do it make the work day more enjoyable.  I work in retail sales, shoes, and 80% of my customers are female.  I see more cleavage, g-strings and butt cracks in one day then  most peple see on the beach.  i flirt with alot of the customers: moms, college girls, singles. It is soft flirtng as I am just trying to make them and their shopping experience fun and enjoyable.  My wife knows, and my female coworkers know, but it is only in fun and I know it will never advance beyond that.  So, go ahead and flirt and have fun but know why you are doing it.

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