Women: would you find this creepy?

[Skeptix]

So I work in this office building with different suites on each floor. There is one office that has a woman and she appears to be the only person ever in the office...never seen anyone else there in two years. Anyway, I frequently fantasize about this lady and was considering leaving an anonymous note under the door saying just that, but wonder if it would seem more like a creepy stalker thing to her than something cool and exciting. I can't explain this desire I have to tell her...only that I would like her to know someone is really digging her. 

What do you ladies think? Creepy? Cool? Should I just let the whole thing go?

/Tapatalker

[kays2012]

It would be creepy to me... I love the idea of being watched and fantasized about... But she is on her own in the office every day, and a note like that would probably leave her feeling vulnerable. She would feel a lot more comfortable knowing who you are. If she wasn't on her own at work every day I think she would probably find an anonymous note exciting. 

[Cherie]

I agree.maybe not even so much creepy as unsafe. She might feel stalked or watched in fear of being raped or something.

I've been attacked in an attempted rape before but was able to fight him off. Definitely one of the biggest fears I have.

[Skeptix]

Definitely not my intent to make anyone feel unsafe.

/Tapatalker

[Cherie]

I don't really think the act is that creepy, but considering she is all alone…it may not creep her out so much is just kind of scare her. You are well intended for sure but her situation is a little different.

[Hush_Now]

I'm in agreement with everyone so far. It would be scary to me if I were in an office and alone a lot. It would also be creepy because I'd feel someone was watching me.  Your intention is good, but an anonymous note wouldn't be perceived as good.

(You can send all of us some sexy notes, lol.)

 

[Skeptix]

Well this is why i asked before acting. I'm just a simple caveman...



Add for sending notes to you all..well i think that's a fabulous idea, as long as you all take it for what it is (not creepy at all). 

/Tapatalker

[Jessie]

If you can just stop by and say Hi. If she works all alone she would welcome some company at times. If she likes you, you might get lucky.. If not you have another friend in the area to hang with.

If it was me I would definitely welcome a friendly face as everyone at my workplace is way too serious

The anon note is a total turn off IMO.

Good Luck!!!

[WetPussy]

I would personally be more flattered if you approached me saying something nice and genuine than an anonymous note.  I remember a time when seeing an anonymous note was exciting and thrilling like how you are describing, but as I got older and became aware of the dangers and the possible bad scenarios that happen in real life I lost that innocent exciting feeling about it    Im in no way calling you immature, Im just saying her perspective of a naive gesture might be different than yours, and you could really make her feel uncomfortable especially since she's alone in there.

I remember leaving my apartment one morning and finding a note on my car.  It was sweet, loving, flattering, but none of that stuck as much as the fact that a person who had chosen not to identify himself knew where I lived.  From that day on I was really frighten, I was a manager at a retail store back then and would come home really late at night, on a dark street, going to an empty apartment.  Thankfully this only lasted a week since I recognized the hand writing of the note while I was at work, it was from an employee that I worked with and he had gotten access to my file obtained my address and left the note on my car.  I know you don't mean bad, he had the best intentions just like you do, but I'll just simply approach her and tell her how much you admire her in a respectful way.

[onlythelonely]

Buy an extra coffee & some bagels, stop in one morning & say hi. Ya might make a new friend!

[naughtee31]

Agree with all the above. I would find the note very unsettling. I would worry who was watching me, whether I would be safe leaving the office alone etc

Just say hi! Fantasies and real life don't always mix

:-)

[Morning_Glory]

Why an anonymous note? Why not photo, name & phone number? Why are you hiding?

M_G

[opman1]

Buy a single red rose bud in a small vase with a pink ribbon and attach a nice, hand written note saying "Hi, I'm [your name here] and work here in the building with you and would like to drop by and say hello sometime" and drop it off.   

[grannypanties]

maybe a dozen yellow roses? ...did it for me.She sent them to me at work and had the whole place wondering who my secret admirer was.

[romanticman]

Although I am a guy, I think you should not leave a note like that.  Since she works alone, she would be more frightened than anything.  You should leave messages to the sexy women of orgasmanic instead !!