Information on Female Ejaculation

[Masturbot]

Here's a video clip of an impressive female ejaculation technique:



For more great vids, keep an eye on the Orgasmanic front page.  I'll be adding new educational streaming vids there regularly... vids on the female orgasm, clitoral and g-spot stimulation, female ejaculation, male and female masturbation, sex toys, sexual positions and more.  To see a list of all our educational video clips, go to the Orgasmanic sex education forum.  Or for a visual index of most of the vids, go here.

[ilikeitalot]

Some more good info... culled from posts I made on other sites:

Web resources

The Female Prostate, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot
www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

Female Ejaculation: What It Is and How To Do It
http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm

All About Female Ejaculation
http://www.counterpunch.org/block02262005.html

Books


Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm:
A Step-by-Step Guide to Giving a
Woman Ultimate Sexual Ecstasy


Female Ejaculation & the G-Spot

Other good web resources
Not related to this topic.  I'll probably move these to a more appropriate thread... when I have enough to categorize them.

Female Sexual Arousal & Orgasm
www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/orgasm.htm

Female Masturbation
www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/masturb.htm

Masturbation Within a Relationship: The Why’s and How’s
www.clitical.com/female-masturbation/masturbation-relationships.php

[ilikeitalot]

Good tips here.  I would've just posted the link to this, but the info was WAY at the bottom of the page.  So I just clipped out the g-spot-specific tips.  Got this from here: www.clitical.com/articles/female-form.php

Locate the G-Spot
The location of the G-Spot can vary from lady to lady, with some having theirs closer to the entrance of the vagina and some having theirs farther back, but just follow this technique and you can’t go wrong. It is best to do this in a highly aroused state. It can be difficult to find when not aroused, as it is usually a small area that becomes quite enlarged during arousal. Take a lubed finger, whichever is most comfortable. Turn your palm up. Now insert the finger barely inside the vagina, staying on the "ceiling" of the vagina. Now very slowly move the finger deeper into the vagina, being sure to stay against the "ceiling". You will soon find the pubic bone. You can't miss it. Once you find the pubic bone, move back just a little bit farther. Again, be sure to stay on the "ceiling". Move just behind the pubic bone and feel around for a small area about the size of a bean, or so. It has a different texture than the surrounding area. I like to describe the texture as being similar to corduroy, as it has ridges. I have also heard it described as feeling spongy. That will be the G-spot.

G-Spot Stimulation
Try various means of stimulating the G-Spot. Try rubbing little circles, try moving your finger back and forth (like you are telling someone to "come here"), try pushing against it, and try tapping on it. Be sure to get your lady's feedback to see which method she prefers.

G-Spot Reaction
Some ladies are going to have a greater reaction to G-Spot stimulation than other ladies. Everyone is different, remember? For some ladies, it produces little or no result. Other ladies claim an earth-shattering out of this world orgasm that resonates from deep within the body and takes them to euphoria with a side excursion to nirvana and bliss.

G-Spot Persistence
It is true for some women that G-Spot play may become more likely to result in orgasm over a period of weeks or months after first starting to experiment with it. So, if you see little or no results at first, give it some time. As the saying goes, if at first you don’t succeed, try and try again.

G-Spot Orgasm Intensity
Some experts claim that G-Spot orgasm intensity may be directly related to PC muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises, like Kegels.

G-Spot Urge to Urinate
Any time you are stimulating the G-Spot, your lady may feel the urge to urinate. This is normal due to the fact that the G-Spot is right up against the bladder. The G-Spot is sometimes referred to as the urethral sponge, as it is the muscle underlying the urethra.

G-Spot Ejaculation
Sometimes when you stimulate the G-Spot, your lady may actually ejaculate. This is very normal. It doesn't happen every time and it doesn't happen to every lady. If it does happen, celebrate it. Don't make her feel ashamed, guilty, or embarrassed. Reassure her that it is normal and tell her that you are glad that it happened because it is evidence that you really did a great job of pleasuring her!

[ilikeitalot]

Here's an excerpt from the book Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm (listed above).

This technique has truly revitalized my marriage.  My wife and I are closer and more open now than we've ever been before.  Our sex life is great and our relationship is stronger than ever.

Our relationship changed drastically the first time she had the G-spot orgasm.  I think it comes down to trust.  When it was happening, I realized that it was so extremely intense for her that she was putting all of her trust in me, completely.  She had to let go fully and shed all inhibitions in order to reach it.  By doing that, she was handing me the reins of control.  She was giving me all the power and trusting that I wouldn't abust it or make fun of her afterward or let harm come to her while it was happening.  And that even though she wasn't sure what was physically happening to her, she trusted me to guide her through it.

When I realized just how much trust she was showing, it touched me deeply.  All the barriers that life had silently erected between us crumbled.  There was a new connection between us.  As new age as it sounds, there was a oneness.  There was complete trust.  And now that we've developed this trust, we're free to play and try new things without fear of recrimination.  We don't have all the inhibitions and reservations we had before.  We've taken our relationship to a higher plane.

Now THAT is what I'm looking for.  Some other quotes from the book:

I thought I had wet the bed!  And then [name withheld] explained what had happened and I could hardly believe it finally happened to me.  If I have to wash the sheets every day for the rest of my life, it's worth it.

She used to just lie there and moan through the whole thing.  It was frustrating because I never knew when she was orgasming or if she even orgasmed.  Thanks to your technique, there's no more guessing.

She kept orgasming as long as I was rubbing the spot.  It never quit or slowed down.  We have a clock radio on our night table and it went of for at least 45 minutes.  I know that sounds like an exaggeration, but it's not.  I was beginning to think it might harm her in some way if I kept going.  And I was ready to explode any minute.  Watching her thrash around in ecstasy and feeling how warm and wet her [vagina] was against my fingers was driving me crazy.  Her [vagina] kept contracting and squeezing and she felt as tight as a schoolgirl again.  It was driving me crazy.  I love this G-spot thing.

The anxiety was overwhelming.  At first I thought it would never come and when it did, the ecstasy was almost unbearable.  It felt so wonderful I couldn't stand it.  I thought I might go crazy from the pleasure.  I wanted to keep going, but had to stop, both at the same time.  And when it was over, I was exhausted and totally satisfied.  Total bliss doesn't define what I felt.  It's not even close.

The first time she came, it looked like she was about to give birth.  She hunched forward and all this fluid shot out of her and splattered on my arm.  I didn't believe in the G-spot until that moment.  Believe me, it's real.

[Cutiewithabooty]

an earth-shattering out of this world orgasm that resonates from deep within the body and takes them to euphoria with a side excursion to nirvana and bliss.

THAT is THE best description of what a squirting g-spot orgasm feels like... omg so good! Definitely puts a smile on your face afterwards

[LT]

my WET face, I hope!

[wet_flower]

OMFG, those are the best....So indescribable....they leave me shaking and often in tears.....

I freaked out when I had my first one. I'd had no idea what a G-spot even was at the time! I thought I'd peed on my husband! 

[Superaverageman]

I freaked out when I had my first one. I'd had no idea what a G-spot even was at the time! I thought I'd peed on my husband! 

This is a very common misunderstanding as I'm sure you're aware! Not sure if I read about this, or heard it in chat... but I know that one man divorced his wife because he thought she was peeing on him during sex! I must say, lol'd pretty hard at that one!

[LT]

Boy, I bet he felt like a fool when he realized what was really going on. I remember the first time that a lover did that on/with me... my god, we went all night long!  Of course, that was back when going all night long wasn't such a big deal - now it takes me all night to do what I used to be able to do all night!  Anyway, I think that female ejaculation is the most beautiful thing in the world next to two women making love.  Glad to hear that many of you ladies here have experienced it... I'd love to see those of you who have help out other women here who haven't (but are trying!) by posting your thoughts and techniques or maybe even pulling them aside in a private chat and talking them through one.

[wet_flower]

I could certainly try....

[Cutiewithabooty]

I'll lend a helping hand! 

[LT]

Okay, girls!  I'm so happy to see that you are willing to help one another.  But now, you've got to actually write something down!!! I have some friends here who have asked me for more details on techniques and what they are supposed to be feeling.  I have told them what I do and what works for me when I'm helping a lover to squirt, but what works for me might not work for them, first of all, and second, I can't really say what you should feel... I have no freaking idea, other than fabulous.  Maybe y'all could shed a little light on what you do to get yourselves there, what your body feels as you approach orgasm... how you can tell the difference between a squirting orgasm as it approaches versus any other type of orgasm... how you masturbate differently to achieve either, etc.  The girls want to know... even if they are too shy to ask.  Trust me, they've all read this thread and I hate to think of them trying to get there and giving it up after a few failed attempts when we have a great bunch of women here with first-hand experience on the subject.  More than that, you are willing to help guide and teach!!!  So share your thoughts and ideas, ladies... as time allows.  I think what you have to offer will go a lot farther than links that we post to what others have said.

[ilikeitalot]

Bump.  LT's inquiry hasn't been answered.  C'mon girls... educate us!  We need to know more!

BTW, I also fixed the female ejaculation video in the second post of this thread... it works again now!

[Cutiewithabooty]

Okay, girls!  I'm so happy to see that you are willing to help one another.  But now, you've got to actually write something down!!! I have some friends here who have asked me for more details on techniques and what they are supposed to be feeling.  I have told them what I do and what works for me when I'm helping a lover to squirt, but what works for me might not work for them, first of all, and second, I can't really say what you should feel... I have no freaking idea, other than fabulous.  Maybe y'all could shed a little light on what you do to get yourselves there, what your body feels as you approach orgasm... how you can tell the difference between a squirting orgasm as it approaches versus any other type of orgasm... how you masturbate differently to achieve either, etc.  The girls want to know... even if they are too shy to ask.  Trust me, they've all read this thread and I hate to think of them trying to get there and giving it up after a few failed attempts when we have a great bunch of women here with first-hand experience on the subject.  More than that, you are willing to help guide and teach!!!  So share your thoughts and ideas, ladies... as time allows.  I think what you have to offer will go a lot farther than links that we post to what others have said.

Alright alright.. haha i'll try to explain to the best of my abilities....

First of all, when i first started having sex i did experience the sensation of squirting but i held it back/squeezed really hard to hold it on because well... i thought i was gonna pee on the guy and that doesn't seem right does it? lol So anyways, i had the sensation almost every time i had sex but i just figured it was part of the whole sex experience and as a girl we are taught to... HOLD IT! lol rather than um.. peeing all over the place!

As i became more and more aware of female anatomy/an increase in my masturbation habits... i found that there is a gland called the G-Spot and when its stimulated it gives off the feeling that you have to pee which in fact.. you aren't.. but rather ejaculate fluid which i dunno the exact ingredients lol in that but its not what you "think" it is lol.

So before you even begin experimenting with different pressures on your G-Spot i'd go empty your bladder so you don't have that nagging voice in the back of your head and you know fully and completely that what comes out of you is NOT coming from your bladder.

After you have done that.. get relaxed and explore with your fingers inside your pussy first.. rub, press, make a circular motion in the area of where your g-spot is... which they say is like.. 2-3 inches your pussy and up against the front wall.. you have to bend your finger up in a "come-hither" motion and it'll feel kinda spongy lol. Maybe switch it up a bit and press hard and just rub your finger around that area or move back and forth on it.. whatever feels best.

For me, i need the assistance of a toy to achieve those mind-blowing messy orgasms lol Mostly because your hand gets tired and you can't keep thrusting over and over and faster and faster and just STOP or slow down cause your hand gets tired lol so i'd suggest getting a toy that is curved upwards and is a little on the hard side rather than the jelly type toys out there.

Now once you've either began rubbing with your fingers or using a hard toy.. you will start to feel the sensation like you have to pee.. that is a good thing! don't get scared! lol and don't clench your muscles either! Just relax and let the sensation over take you. (BTW, i forgot to add.. make sure you have some towels surrounding you lol) At this point, i'd say take it up on a notch and whatever technique you are using to either rub harder/faster, thrust harder/faster, and do NOT clench your muscles lol The first time you experience that you will automatically start clenching but you gotta be aware that you are doing that.

The feeling will eventually become overwhelming, the first time you achieve this it will take some time so don't think in 5 minutes you are gonna have a mind-blowing squirting orgasm because you arent lol you gotta have patience!! Once the feeling that you have to urinate becomes so over-whelming you cant possibly take it anymore, you push out, releasing all those juices onto your unsuspecting lover, towel, bed (if you didnt have a towel under you lol).

Definitely an experience i would hope every woman would and was able to experience!

Have any questions for me lemme know lol but that was my attempt to explain all there is to know about female ejaculation and how to achieve it!

Happy cumming!

[ilikeitalot]

Wow, good job little girl!  That was a great first-hand explanation of one of my favorite things in the world.  And you already know this, but um... I'd looooove to make you squirt all over me while watching you moan and buck and lose control lol.