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« on: January 09, 2018, 02:56:45 PM »

Does anyone else have friends who just don't get the strong interest in sex or masturbation? I have two close friends, I adore them and we talk about that kind of thing often, but they just aren't as into it as I am? My sister, who is in a lovely committed relationship, is so vanilla - she wanted to do something nice for Valentine's day and got them a booklet of little sex suggestions, I would have gotten something way more fun, while I went to the store with her and got a brand new bullet vibe. Anyone else have similar experiences?
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« Reply #1 on: January 09, 2018, 10:11:20 PM »

Outside of this group, my friends are about the same as yours, all pretty tempered when talking about sex.  Even the two couples my wife and I have hooked up with arenít much for sex chat when weíre not actually together fucking each other, lol

Feel free to chat away, Iíll try and keep you entertained  Thumbs up
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« Reply #2 on: January 10, 2018, 02:18:05 AM »

Everyone in my real life are very vanilla compared to me, but that never stops me from talking about sex or my experiences with them (unless it makes the uncomfortable). It is part of who I am and I couldn't imagine not talking to my friends about who I am. That being said, there are a few that I know are not very sexual at all, beyond for procreation purposes, and I don't bring up subject around them, but those friends are not my close ones.

For example, I met my husband on a nude picture sharing site and all my close friends know this, the rest know we met on the internet, but not where. Hell, my mom even knows where we really met cause I am not ashamed of it. Altho some people are not ready to know that detail about it cause it doesn't seem proper or long lasting.

Not everyone is as open about sex as others. I do love buying more risque presents for those couples tho 
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« Reply #3 on: January 10, 2018, 11:38:23 AM »

I love my friends, but we don't ever talk sex or masturbation. So, who knows if they're vanilla or not. Maybe they're here and I just have no idea. A few of my guy friends have told me that they don't share about their sexual adventures because they believe it's something that should only be shared between two people, and it would be disrespectful to kiss and tell. I respect that.

But, it's still a subject I want to discuss, and partly why I'm here. I love to talk about sex, masturbation, what feels good, what does it feel like, what works, what doesn't, what are you into into, what turns you on, what porn do you watch, what would you like to try, what's your reaction to, how often do you [...], how do you [...], etc. So, if anyone wants to talk about these things with me let me know.  Thumbs up
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« Reply #4 on: January 15, 2018, 01:22:32 PM »

Hey Tess,

Maybe most of us here are just wired differently.  Are we more adventurous?  Like to try new things?  Want to experience everything?  Are we the people that try new foods instead of strict diets of the same, bland foods?  Are we the people that savor every bite, or just eat to have fuel?  Put a little spice in everything or stick yo the same old, same old?
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« Reply #5 on: January 17, 2018, 07:53:14 AM »

I agree w BBWFan - I'd say most of us here, even those without registered profiles, have more than a passing interest in the topic of sex and sexuality. Even with my own wife, who has healthy sexual appetite, has told me "I'm just not into it as much as you are". I guess for some people, those racy Valentine's Day suggestion books are as daring as they get. That counts for something...
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« Reply #6 on: March 02, 2018, 12:52:58 AM »

I only have a couple of close friends I talk candidly about sex with. I've known them for years, and even then it took several years before we even really breached the topic. I would have to know someone really well in the face-to-face world before I let them that far into my life. I'm okay with leaving the other people around me out of it.
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« Reply #7 on: March 02, 2018, 02:30:14 AM »

I have a few I can be really open with when it comes to sex. Funny that I thought all of them was pretty vanilla before we started to talk about things. But sex is a touchy subject and I think you have to be pretty down to yourself before you can talk to other about it. I mean, it can be hard enough to express for your partner your deepest fantasies.
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« Reply #8 on: March 02, 2018, 04:10:10 AM »

I'm pretty embarrassed about my sex life so I don't openly talk about it with others face to face.


online sure whatever but in real life i don't have much to discuss or say so I just keep that stuff to myself.
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