i have large labia and i just dont feel sexy/confident about it all. it makes me want to cry cause i feel sooo ugly
I certainly understand why you would feel that way. Most readily available porn doesn't show much but what they believe the largest number of their clientele they would be attracted to. Blonde, skinny, big tits, college, shaved pussy, who likes cum on her face. The fact is every single human beings body is perfect. That's a big common feeling for all in the nudist lifestyle - not just to accept physical differences, but to embrace them. I am sure with just a small amount of research, labia fetish sites can be found. But, just because others want to see it and get turned on by it doesn't mean that will make your personal opinion of your own body improve. Take this fact into account: During an argument of the pros and cons of circumcision, I, being uncircumcised, can honestly state that it enhances sexual pleasure for a couple reasons, but mainly because there are nerves there that wouldn't be if my foreskin had been hacked off by a butcher. You have the ability to feel more because you have more to feel. I wish I knew the best encouragement to help you feel better, but self-esteem is not an easy fix. And, it never just has one cause. Meaning, if you felt great about everything about yourself, you would not be worried about how your labia looked - or even more it would turn you on, as my foreskin turns me on.
The only suggestion I could muster with the resources available is such: Put a few pics of your pussy in the female member forum and read the statements of all the guys getting turned on. It's an anonymous forum. Just show us those lips. I know I want to see them.